"Hey ! Saw the baby moving, da !! The head is big"
This was a (or is it an ?) SMS from my sister, in Malaysia. How would you feel, if you were a brother ? I was flying despite my "Annalakshmi" weight. I got highly emotional. There was a reason I got emotional. For the past few days (or weeks) I have been witnessing quite some marriages to my Colleagues and a few others becoming Moms.
For instance, my Sister is now pregnant. Not a single day has passed out, without a war between me and my sister - before her marriage. Quite Natural. I have fought for senseless issues. Even when my mom and sis were crying on the eve of wedding, I yelled at them.. "Ippo enna azhugai.. ? romba scene podaadheenga". But when the Mangalya Dharanam was performed, you should have seen the way I cried. I did not realize I was crying, until someone said "Azhadheda !! Sandhoshama Iru.. Athimber Vandhaachcha !!! Congratulations".
A girl, who was in my life - my sister, is now a part of another family. And now, she is a mother. These days, Iam getting too-much emotional, whenever I hear from my sister. Men dont really feel the transformation. But women, after marriage, their transformation is significant. Think about it.
For instance, my Sister is now pregnant. Not a single day has passed out, without a war between me and my sister - before her marriage. Quite Natural. I have fought for senseless issues. Even when my mom and sis were crying on the eve of wedding, I yelled at them.. "Ippo enna azhugai.. ? romba scene podaadheenga". But when the Mangalya Dharanam was performed, you should have seen the way I cried. I did not realize I was crying, until someone said "Azhadheda !! Sandhoshama Iru.. Athimber Vandhaachcha !!! Congratulations".
A girl, who was in my life - my sister, is now a part of another family. And now, she is a mother. These days, Iam getting too-much emotional, whenever I hear from my sister. Men dont really feel the transformation. But women, after marriage, their transformation is significant. Think about it.
8 comments:
wonderfully written. i was witness to the way my close friend cried when his sis got married.
You are going to become a mama, congrats friend.
Nice one Keerthi. Sometimes, it is just not good to keep emotions bottled up.
Congrats on becoming an uncle soon!.
Me getting emotional reading this post too! I often think about how close my brother and I have become after my marriage and to think that we didn't have one nice thing to say to each other before that!!
Anyway, congrats mama-to-be!
congrats....lemme tell u thats its awesome to see ur sis bcome a mom...unparalleled...i am a proud CHITHI :D:D:D & u will be a proud mama soooooon :D:D:D congrats again :)
prabu, Vikki Vikki azharadhunna ennannu annikkudhaan enakku purinjudhu !! :)
jeevan, thanks pal.
deepak, sometimes ?? i think emotions are always best, when left uncontrolled. what say ? Thanks, BTW.
aparna, ada ! ellar veetleyum idhe kadhai dhaana ? Thanks.
capriciously you, proud mama !! yep ! I already felt the difference. Thanks for Mama, and Congrats for Chiththi :)
Wow, padikkra enakke touchings!! The experience must be wonderful!
Is it gonna be a baby boy or girl. Are you gonna be an aunt or an uncle :-P
I think everyone gets emotional. However, I think Indian men are embarassed to show it.
Bless the Baby.
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